Part two: Should I stay or should I go? Questions for getting unstuck in your career
Questions for Getting Unstuck in your Career
These five sets of questions won’t tell you if you should become a novelist, go to nursing school, open your own coffee and book shop, or work in IT. Your own answers to these questions will, however, suggest whether you should stay in your ho-hum job and give it all you’ve got or get up the gumption to follow your bliss in a different direction.
So, sit down with a cup of something hot and soothing, and write out the answers to the questions. You don’t have to write complete sentences. The grammar police won’t care. You can even use bullet points to get your ideas down – but it is important to write down the answers. You can see where you are in black and white and begin to look for patterns and possibilities. Write the date at the top of the page (yes, just like you did in school) so you will remember just how you were feeling on this particular date in your life.
1 – Do you have to pretend to be someone else to get through your work day? Do you have to put on a persona or can you just be yourself? Does your job allow you to work with people who share your ideas and values?
2 – Does this job fit you so well that sometimes work feels like play? Do the actual tasks you carry out day-to-day energize you and feed your soul or leave you feeling drained and burned out? What values do you find yourself living out in your work?
3- What compromises do you find yourself making to stay in this job? Think about family, personal growth, achievement, stability, etc.
4- How do feel about what you accomplish each day – the end result or product of your work? Are you proud of what you do? Does this job open the door for promotions or more appealing future jobs – or is it a career dead end?
5- Pull out your crystal ball and look into the future. Is this really what you want to be doing for the rest of your life? In five years, what would you like to be doing? In ten years, where do you want to be in your career?
